What feelings?

How do you know if you still have feelings for someone? If you don't even think about it then why would you?
but why is it that when the topic is brought up you seem to be affected in an unfamiliar way?
it doesn't make sense.... not at all.... do you still have feelings? no... Are you affected? idk what you mean i don't feel affected... it doesn't make sense T.T
Have i lied to myself these past 2 years, convincing myself that the topic will never come up and just ignore it? Probably did... i was never good at handling things then. When i was younger i found it easier to let things fly by around me and if it was about me i jus let it slide pass... It seemed to work, i got better. But evidently not properly, bringing back the topic leads to unresolved problems because i must have avoided them before.
i didn't realise that i avoided them because i had forgotten about it but when the topic arose again i didn't know how to react... That is the problem. I don't have any feelings for her, i know that. its just i never ended it properly in a way i should have.

Now that i realise that i avoided the problem in the past its gonna be hard to fix but i know i can. idk where to start but the harder part is already past, realising that there is a problem. Now that i know there is a problem i will find a way to fix it.

Back then i was never good at solving problems, i only solved those that i wanted too, the others i didn't care about. I did it wrong.

so... if i was given a second chance to change things i would go back and end things properly, not avoid them like i did.



From this experience I've learnt that avoiding problems doesn't fix them. They will only end up coming back around and biting you on the backside (as my maths teacher would say).

_ Steps to solve a problem
1. realise that there is a problem
2. find out what the problem is
3. once you know what the problem is talk about it so you know that its true (you wont be able to talk about it truthfully unless it is really a problem)
4. Find out in what ways the problem can be solved, if you can't think of any yourself than seek advice from a friend or someone with experience.
5. Apply methods of solving.

**Remember. You may think at first that there is no problem, only until someone tells you will you realise something. Listen to your friends they know when there is a problem and they can help you out**

Its just like maths problem solving. first find out what the problem is and figure out what is needed to solve it, then apply a formula or arithmetic calculation to solve it. If you leave a problem unsolved it will come back and bite you in another problem where you have to apply the solved problem to solve another problem. Its a chain affect.



So please take this from reading. If you have a problem don't just leave it alone, don't avoid it. Try to solve it. But remember when solving it remember your values in life, don't go against your values when solving it, you'll only be going against yourself. So you have a problem with your ex-girlfriend... deal with it - don't avoid it.

well that's enough of me talking about my problems >.<
i know that i can solve it and i always have the help of my friend ^.^

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